Love, actually

An emotion strong as 'love' has two one of the two effects on your life. It takes you to heaven, or drag you to hell. You grow older, stay lonely, love is becoming less of a romantic but practical matter. Like Lao Cui wrote "若是为了生命，爱情算个屁！"

Don't jump too early before confirming you are loving a lovable person. Stay cool even when it disappoints you. Don't let it drag you too deep, move on before it gets too painful... The list goes on and on. There should really be a "survivor guide of person in love", on the other hand, who would calmly follow those instructions if he's too deep in the hole. Nothing can be done on the side line, it is a sadly cruel world, and love actually, SUX!